It's funny some people think it is their duty to tell others what is "wrong" with them, followed by precise instructions how to fix those flaws ASAP, and later they expect glowing expressions of appreciation for their "rightness." In the absense of your gratitude, they are offended and insulted.
No thank you.
Yes, if I am about to step out in front of a speeding bus, by all means, stop me. But if "fault finding" has become your hobby, leave me out of it. I've become rather fond of my faults, and the ones I don't like, I'll manage on my own. If I need your advice, I'll ask for it.
I'd rather hang out with friends, family, colleagues and mentors whose focus is the depth of our strengths and talents. I'd rather fan the flames under the stew pot of the positive, because that's the life I want to cook up. Why cultivate bitterness and negativity?
Life is challenging enough.
Take a close look at the gifts you are giving and receiving. Be sure they are wrapped in love.
Peace,
WS